I am the mother of three girls: 17 yrs, 6 yrs and 4 yrs. I am a US Army Flight Medic who just returned from being deployed for 18 months. Upon my return home my 7 year marriage ended in divorce and now I am truly starting over. My 17 yr old says I am stuck in the 80s; I feel I am just lost and hopeless. I want to become the real life starter wife for my kids and then for me.